For me -
1. Nature.
Now I live in the mountain forest. So I can go hiking.
2. Music.
I started playing the piano when I was 3 years old. It did not last long because I broke my hand often. I wrote music, too. Now, I just listen to a lot of music.
3. Planting. Spending time with animals.
When I had a difficult life situation, I planted different plants. And I liked when my hands were dirty in the soil.
There's only one situation when I can be jealous - you have a dog.
4. I watch pranks/everything funny.
5. Sleep and eat well.
In my best-performing years, I slept 9 hours every night. It's a dream now :)
6. Work.
When the stress is connected with my personal life, I work. I try to work only with people who make me feel good/support me and my style.
I get a lot of support from my work community. Especially on LinkedIn.
When I work, I don't remember anything bad.
7. I don't drink alcohol at all. I eat a lot of chocolate/sugar. I know it's not healthy. But I feel better.
I think it’s totally okay to cry, be not productive, and feel bad when something bad happens. And if you can’t cope with everything, you need to ask for help.
What works for you?