@inna_proshkina Thats the exact thing which i learned after spending of 3 years. At the start I just learned how to use youtube properly then I start learning web designing and now I have my own pickleball shoes site which I am managing. But today if I am able to manage it. its due to regular learning.
Learned this last night sitting at a dinner take with a group of ladies over in their 80s/90s.
It seems obvious to not take things for granted, but seriously, DON'T take things for granted. Even the small things, or what seems small now like driving or taking walks, or listening to music.
And also. Always ask why!
Three main lessons have helped me.
1) Happiness is what you decide it is
2) Nobody is going to push you out of your comfort zone - in order to learn and grow you need to do it yourself
3) The problem is not the problem. The problem is your attitude towards the problem.
Nobody owes you anything and you're free to do anything.
There's really no script to success. You can read all the bios you want, and do the exact same thing as them, and you will never end up like them.
We'll can learn from their grit but still have to beat our path forward. Every success is different, but every failure is the same.
To be honest, there are quite a lot that fit as a "main lesson". But one I've been learning lately is that "There is always a way". It's also like my creed.
I have learnt that there is no excuse in this life. If you're gonna get that thing done, you'll surely find a way somehow. And there'll always be one.