Every week @tuckermax@charliehoehn and @nilsAparker sit down with me to help with my problems meeting and dating women. I am a pale ginger from Ohio who just moved to Austin.
This week we talk about recent dates. Tucker and Charlie break down my irrational, ineffective thoughts and explain how to replace them to get better with women. They also get into advice on texting, going back to her place, & being honest and funny about my insecurities.
Highlights:
- How to flip an unattractive or low status area of your life (be honest and funny)
- How NOT to f*ck up communication via text
- Why audio messages are better than text messages
- The difference between being a nice guy and being a doormat
- If you live in a sh*thole, here’s how to bring up going back to her place
@ Beginning – Reconnecting with girl I texted “Meh” to in Episode 7
@ 2:30 – Earlier, another Tinder chick that blew me off the same day
@ 13:30 – Update on girl from Episode 8
@ 16:00 – We talk about speed dating from Episode 9
@ 18:30 – My crazy thoughts leaving speed dating and over-rating male competition
@ 19:30 – I matched with 1 girl, had a great date, and remembered details
@ 21:30 – “There are plenty of times I’ve left a bar with a girl and we don’t have sex but I spend the night at her place, really common.”
@ 22:30 – Being honest and self-deprecating about your shitty living situation and low status
@ 24:30 – “Yes and…” for whatever situation you are in, you like it and who you are, and go with that (Improv Lesson)
@ 29:00 – “Let her decide she’s out of your league.”
@ 30:00 – “I think Joe is actually secretly arrogant in a weird way.”
@ 36:30 – The context of jokes and staying consistent with you are
@ 37:30 – When women are sick or at the gym…
@ 38:30 – Great advice about texting. How to text, not f*ck up over text
@ 42:00 – Difference between being a nice guy and a door mat
@ 44:00 – What I should text and sending an audio message
@ 46:00 – How to bring up going back to her place.
@ 50:00 – You don’t need everything for her to be very attracted to you
@ 51:30 – Great girl that I met at improv
@ 56:00 – “Just ask her out!”
The Mating Grounds - 1: Helping Joe