Losing love or failing in a startup, what's scarier?

I'll get back at you if I fail on my startup. 😁 Not scared on losing love anymore, not too much. Though, these days there are kids involved, so it brings whole new level of scariness. But failing my startup... that will impact all those. And it is currently pretty scary, as it is path that I haven't ever travelled yet. No idea how it affects on everything. Especially love and kids.

Both assume an illusion of control. I'd rather let go of the fear and operate under the assumption that failure, loss, and the choice to grow from the experience is inevitable.

From an outside perspective, I'd guess losing love